how can I change the menu to a different shape ... like a cup cake shape??

I saw this in another post:

/*Color Menu Level1 */
ul.navi li.level1.menu1 > a {background: #3db3c4;}
ul.navi li.level1.menu2 > .separator {background: #f8839d;}
ul.navi li.level1.menu3 > .separator {background: #b3c70d;}
ul.navi li.level1.menu2 > a {background: #f8839d;}
ul.navi li.level1.menu3 > a {background: #b3c70d;}
ul.navi li.level1.menu4 > a {background: #db711e;}
ul.navi li.level1.menu5 > a {background: #66b967;}
ul.navi li.level1.menu6 > a {background: #4eb9e7;}

where does the round shape come from??

Also I purchased the template but I can not see the guide as I don't have the correct subscription

I got this far with the cupcakes:

50.116.84.20/~grflour/

however the link is actually above the text. How can the link cover a larger area??

Also the mobile menu does not link at all and I submitted a support ticket for that.

Dear Mary Stremmel,

Please submit the custom work ticket to our ticket system at www.smartaddons.com/submit-a-ticket/submit-ticket.

We will discuss this issue more detail.

Thanks